Anonymous asked: I asked you on ur main blog, im the anon who has a crush on ny friend, and we're both girls. U told me to tell her but our friendship is really important to me and i dont want to ruin it if she doesnt feel the same way, im so confused i dont know what to do

You either tell her and get it out in the open so it doesn’t eat at you, or you can keep it inside. I know the relationship means a lot to you, but you’ll regret not telling her.

Anonymous asked: whens the right time to like, have sex? i mean, my boyfriend and i will be together six months the 8th, and hes 16 and im 13. jhwajedas :-(

You are 13 years old. Please, for everything’s sake, DO NOT HAVE SEX ANYTIME SOON! You are very, very young and shouldn’t even be thinking about sex. You should wait until you’re sure you’re ready.

Anonymous asked: Omg I'm sorry i didn't mean to ask this on your main blog</3 -->I'm a 14 yr old girl and I have such a big fear of sex. No, I was never raped or sexually harrassed or anything like that. I just fear sex. Whenever we had sex ed. classes, I have fainted during each of them. I'm scared to even look at my own vagina, let alone touch it. I don't know what to do, I'm so embarrassed. I don't even know what parts of genitals are called or where they are). Is this a bad thing? I feel ashamed

Don’t even be embarrassed of this, dear. It’s actually quite normal for people your age! When I was younger I feared sex and genitals but that’s because it was all new to me. I think once you get older you’ll start getting curious about it and you’ll become sexually active, so it will be better. Never feel ashamed because of this because you ARE young, so it’s normal. <3

Anonymous asked: Is it bad to try weed once?

I don’t think it is, only because it’s not a hard drug. I was so against weed for the longest time but I tried it about 8 months ago for the first time and I enjoyed. Do it because YOU want to though.

Anonymous asked: okay so, i'm bi. and i have a gf and my bestfriend told me she liked me. but i really don't like her back i mean she's my bestfriend and all but yeah. and i don't wanna hur ther either but she gets jealous of my gf and i feel like i'm hurting her. and my other bestfriend who i tell everything too is gone in rehab for cutting and i don't know what to do anymore.. i don't wanna hurt anyone.

Just tell your best friend that you don’t have those feelings for her. She may feel sad, but it’s the right thing to do. And I’m so sorry to hear that.. That’s never an easy thing.

Anonymous asked: but i dont know what to really talk about with her. im a loser when it comes to conversations haha

Ask her about her day, then progress to asking about her hobbies and whatnot.

Anonymous asked: we talk from time to time. we met through a friend but we're that close

Well, you say that you can’t win her over? Then try talking to her more and get to know her better. Become close friends and go from there.

Anonymous asked: theres this girl that i like, shes super smart, sweet, and beautiful. but the thing is i dont know to win her over :/ can you help me out?

I could try my best! Do you two talk, or?

Anonymous asked: I think I love someone in another country.. Is that weird? He's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with but I'm worried I'll never meet him because I can't afford to travel over there and I can't tell my parents :/ I don't know why I'm telling you this because it isn't really a question but I just want your opinion on it I guess xx

Awh, I think that’s very sweet actually! Well, I think if you honestly believe he is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, and you for a act that he feels the same.. Then I say go for it. You both need to save up money and meet in person in the near future. If you love each other you will make it happen. :)

Anonymous asked: hey, A year ago I met this guy, he seemed amazing in my eyes, and he made me feel amazing, he told me he liked me, it turns out he was just playing me and that really hurt. we stared talking again a couple of weeks ago and I thought it would be funny it try play the player. i didnt think it would actually work and he told my best friend (which is also his best friend) that he' madly inlove with me and he's the biggest idiot for hurting me, I dont want to hurt him, what should i say/do? thanks x

Have you heard the saying, ‘Once a player, always a player.’? It’s true. Please, for the sake of your feelings and your heart, do not fall for it. He may say he ‘loves’ you but he’s already hurt you in the past, which means he’ll keep doing it.

Anonymous asked: well i have liked this girl for two years and i cant seem to get over her, even though she found out and said she didn't feel the same way I still love her and now where really good friends, and it just kills me that im not with her.. i was hoping she would be my first kiss but ill know that won't happen..what do I do, I've met other girls that are just as wonderful but i still think of her everyday day

If you’ve liked her for that long and she doesn’t feel the same, then you do need to move on! Date over girls and have fun. If you still think about her after dating other girls, just remember it’s normal because you spent two years of your life just on her. Try to move on and be happy with a new girl. It will happen! :)